Lives in Himalayan villages

„Would you like to come to some villages around Chamba?“ a friend asked. I happily said yes. He wanted to visit the kin of former servants of his family and bring them gifts before Diwali. After buying boxes of sweets and drawing money from an ATM, three of us set off from Mussoorie.

The air was crystal clear and the snow peaks shone in great splendour. How beautiful to be out in the open at the height of 2000 metres! What wonderful surroundings the villagers live in. Blue mountain ranges were rolling one after the other like waves of the ocean. Kids in school uniform walked on the road. Their school may be much simpler than those in cities, yet the location is enviable and the openness of space may be conducive for an open mind.

Our first stop was in a tiny village near the old road to Tehri town, which has been submerged in the Ganges due to the Tehri Dam. It was a steep climb down the hill. An old woman was sitting in a courtyard sieving grain. She had few teeth left, yet her smile was warm and welcoming. It was a surprise visit, and immediately her neighbours gathered, too. “Kursi lao” I heard, and children brought chairs from a neighbouring house.  The woman lives alone in an old house. Her husband, who was a servant to my friend’s family for decades, had passed away several years ago. Her only daughter is staying with her in laws.

We had to stress really hard that our stomachs were very full and had no place even for a cup of tea. Yet water we took and she sent a girl to pluck some lime. My friend had to show her how to use the zip on a jacket he had brought and then the talk was mainly about people she knew from the olden times and about crops.

When we left, she said she would come to Mussoore to see the father of my friend who was about her age. Will she still be able to climb up the hill?  Probably she can do it. Village folk are hardier than city folk.

Next we drove to a tiny village some 30 km away. It was a 2 hours drive in wonderful environment. The car climbed over a mountain range down into a valley and in the end very high up on a kachha road which was only as broad as our jeep. It was frightening. A mantra kept automatically and continuously repeating itself in my mind.

We were expected, because Panditji, as the former servant was called, had a mobile. Two boys waited for us at the road head to guide us further up and a table with sweets and namkeen was already laid. His three daughters are married nearby and his eldest son is working in Hyderabad.

After leaving my friend’s house some years ago, Panditji became a part time pujari in a mandir further down the hill – for Rs 150 a month. Meanwhile he stopped going there. The money was not worth the climb. He was offered a full time job as pujari for Rs. 1100. It would have required him to stay the whole day and sleep in the mandir, too. He declined the offer as he felt that he was too old to live alone. If something happened to him, nobody would know. His son is sending him money from Hyderabad.

His house had two rooms with a buffalo staying downstairs, and here too, neighbours gathered straight away when we arrived. The view from his narrow veranda was truly spectacular. It became dark and the hills lit up with lights sparkling everywhere, down in the valley and above in the sky.

Last we went to a house near Chamba on the new road to Uttarkashi to visit the wife of a former servant. My friend was all praise for this servant who was with them over 40 years ago in Kalkuta, when my friend was still in school. Once, the servant went home to Chamba for a holiday. While there, he started working for daily wages on road construction. After a few days a rock fell on him and he died on the spot.

His wife was young, his only son barely two years old and physically slightly handicapped. Now his wife was in her sixties and lived with her daughter in law and three grandsons in the village and her son worked in a restaurant in Ludhiana over 200 km away.

When we reached the simple house made from mud and wood, she had just come back from Ludhiana after a check up in a hospital. Her health is not good. She has water in her lungs. Yet her nature was very sweet and loving. It was a pleasure to be with her, her bahu and the grandchildren in the small room, which had a garlanded photo of her husband on the wall.

Their belongings were stashed away in trunks and boxes, quilts were neatly folded, and only school books were piled up on a trunk. Though she must have been tired from the long journey, apart from being ill, she enquired about everyone she knew from that time, while her grandsons were leaning on her. Her hard life has made her into a beautiful person.

I once again realized that it is neither status nor money that ultimately counts. Important is how one takes the experiences in one’s life; whether one can accept them or not; whether one has trust and faith in life or not; whether one feels support from within or not and whether one can ultimately let go of one’s life when the time comes.

While walking up to the road two young men passed us on the narrow track. “Hi!” one of them said in a tone that one hears occasionally in cities, yet it sounded odd in the village. “Where are you from?” he asked further. “Germany”, I replied. “Oh, I worked for 3 years in a restaurant in Munich”, he surprised me in fluent German.

Driving back to Mussoorie several jackals got trapped in the light beam of our jeep. We stopped in the silent night and admired the vast expanse of flickering lights down in the valley which was Dehradun.

What a rich, inspiring day it was! I had been allowed a peep into different lives which are side by side on our beautiful earth. Each person is the centre of a unique, private world that depends heavily, if not fully, on the mind. The outer circumstances may be determined to a great extent. Yet the option to be at peace with one’s life seems to be open to everyone.

By Maria Wirth



  1. Paresh Patel · · Reply

    Envy you

  2. Beautiful experiences and wise reflection. Thank you Maria, for reminding us the importance of contentment in life.

  3. My question is this, are people happy in western countries with all their possession, because I’m certainly not. What about you ?

    1. As a westerner leaving in the West, if you ask, I can say I am quite contented, you may say happy, but not for the possessions but for the fulfilling Sanatana Dharma. In my experience with my fellow westerners, I really do not see them happy, The amount of antidepressant medicine that they are taking is increasing alarmingly: neither their lifestyle, nor their aims in life are giving them any contentment, as long as they keep searching for that “happiness” in external purchases and actions, impermanent by its own nature. Only when they reach to their peak of dissatisfaction, either in this life or in some future life, they will start searching within themselves, and only then there is hope. Western lifestyle and “values” are not meant to make people happy, only to make a flock of consumers of goods and of easy pleasures, always wanting more while they tramp their lives in what they have already acquired so much time ago that they may be still paying for a good that has already got spoiled. A society (or many, given there are some differences depending on the countries) that is already going clearly downwards towards its own destruction. How much I would like to convey to hindu indians that the price one has to pay to abandon traditional values by getting dazzled by the “bright side” of the West is not worth at all.

      1. VISHAL AGRAWAL · ·

        You just amazingly expressed the truth in this response. The truth about the value of what we have currently but fail to realise it and loose it. The truth that we get swayed looking at the swanky west civilisation, which is materially wealthy but empty deep within. The truth about simple living and high thinking. Thank you!

  4. Tulsi Bhandari · · Reply

    Very good post Maria. Thanks for sharing your experience. Contentment indeed is the key to happiness. All is relative.

  5. I had similar experience in areas around Manali 🙂

  6. I have that experience everyday of my life and I don’t have to go anywhere.
    When all doubts are removed, the reward is perpetual happiness. It is called savitarka Samadhi

    “The pleasure one experiences in enjoying the best things of this world does not equal the one thousandth part of the pleasure one feels after acquiring true knowledge.” Swami Dayanand

    1. I agree wholeheartedly. There are magnificent experiences that can be had in this world but they pale in comparison to Jnana. 🙂

      1. Bhujang nayak · ·

        When you have enhanced jnana, anything anywhere, in the world should not’s time,world is full of if your comfortable in a place make yours and be happy.i would apply the same rule to me,but for my age. Good luck to you,enjoy your life.

      2. Bhujang nayak · ·

        Thank you.

      3. Bhujang · ·

        Thank you maria wirth, i have replied to your post on fb yesterday,check it out,it will guide you better.

      4. didn’t have internet for 3 days…. missed it.

  7. ” Each person is the center of a unique, private world that depends heavily, if not fully, on the mind. The outer circumstances may be determined to a great extent. Yet the option to be at peace with one’s life seems to be open to everyone.”. Well said, Maria.

    Each and every Atma is a part and parcel of infinite Brahman and hence is very special, this profound truth concludes unequivocally that in the larger picture we are all equal and it is up to the individual how to handle the external experiences and how not to muddy his or her holy inner core. Once one can attain that degree of maturity one can live peacefully until the show is over.

  8. Ramasubramaniam R · · Reply

    Dear Maria,
    Pleased to read about your Himalayan experience. I had a feeling that I was traveling with you in the mountains. Wish you good health.


  9. Dear Frnds,
    I m 50, male, Bachelor, no liabilities, vegetarian, staying in New Delhi. I have taken VRS, opted out of rat race now wud like to live the life of a monk. PREFER HIMACHAL, DHARAMSALA, OR RAJASTHAN. SO HOW DO I FIND A GENUINE ASHRAM GENUINE PEOPLE, BASICALLY HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT.

  10. Happy to know Bahan ji , you took interest to visit our villages. May be 15 years back down the line I also traveled to Dhanalty via mussorie. The place is really heaven on earth. The Hilly people are very friendly and they really cherish their culture and what not.

    all the best to you and pl. keep on writing . I also see your articles on India facts as well. We will never forget your contribution to Hinduism.

    1. thank you. i feel priviledged that i can live in India

  11. Bhujang nayak · · Reply

    In West,EU and all so called over developed countries the social fabric is burnt down. That’s why Indian society is very flourishing and developing on slow pace,but there are many places like metropolitan cities where this totally different, and the religion does not interfere in your way of life,and you can go to the temples anytime you wish to,there they don’t teach intolerance, or say you should visit daily, it’s free society you are your own boss.

    1. thank you for your comment. sorry, saw it only now, as it landed in junk…

  12. Blogger-Vishal Pandey · · Reply

    When you plan next to come here to see other sides too ?

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